InterActualizer Blog
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The Big Problem With Life Coaching
Coaching, Life Coaching“I’m convinced of this: Good done anywhere is good done everywhere. For a change, start by speaking to people rather than walking by them like they’re stones that don’t matter. As long as you’re breathing, it’s never too late t...
What is Embodiment in Coaching?
Coaching, Embodiment, Life Coaching, Psychology“Embodiment is a way to heal the mind-body divide we experience within ourselves and, more systemically, within Western cultures. To do so we need to understand the self as a body. Our body and our personhood are so intimately connected ...
Coaching As A Whole Life Skill
Coaching, Executive Coaching, Life CoachingI just really pay attention to what people say and through that I can then reflect back thoughts they’ve told me about themselves that they don’t know about themselves and [which] allow them to unlock those doors to get to the places...
Coaching Leaders with CHOICE™
Coaching, Executive Coaching, LeadershipBut until a person can say deeply and honestly, “I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday,” that person cannot say, “I choose otherwise.” —Steven Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Clearly Covey ...
Paper: Rites of Passage in Coaching
Coaching, Life Coaching, Papers/Research, PsychologyEvery positive change — every jump to a higher level of energy and awareness — involves a rite of passage. Each time to ascend to a higher rung on the ladder of personal evolution, we must go through a period of discomfort, of initia...
Mindful Leadership and Managing Change
Executive Coaching, Leadership, Psychology“Leadership is now understood by many to imply collective action, orchestrated in such a way as to bring about significant change while raising the competencies and motivation of all those involved—that is action where more than one in...
Multiplicity: Working with Parts and Selves in Coaching
Coaching, Embodiment, Life Coaching, PsychologyWe must accept our multiplicity, the fact that we can show up quite differently in our athletic, intellectual, sexual, spiritual or many other states. A heterogeneous collection of states is completely normal in us humans. The key to wel...
How do I choose my coaching niche?
Business Development, Coaching, Life Coaching“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.“ — Albert Einstein This question of choosing your coaching niche is clearly a crucially important one, yet not always easy to answer. Here I’m going to give you some prompts and i...
The Undermind: Why Thinking Less Makes You Smarter
Coaching, Life Coaching, Psychology“Modern Western culture has so neglected the intelligent unconscious—the undermind, I shall sometimes call it—that we no longer know that we have it, do not remember what it is for, and so cannot find it when we need it.“ —Guy Clax...